Sunday, December 30, 2018

2018 Year End Thoughts (YET)



2018 Year End Thoughts



 2018 YET




My Year End Thoughts are :-

After my 50th birthday, I have a few enlightenment or realisations. I tried to live a life that is fulfilling with less stuff but first I am get rid or use up the stuff I have accumulated all these years. The strategy seems to be simple :-


  1. ·         Stop buying more Just-In-Case Stuff for a future needs that may not happen,
  2. ·         Use up or Give Away all the bought stuff
  3. ·         Down-sizing most items at home
  4. ·         Know my identity in Christ, who I am, who I am meant to achieve and my destiny.
  5. ·         Live life at the moment, seize the day and make the most out of all.
  6. ·         Relax and Chill once in a while. Insist on personal time to do things alone.
  7. ·         Spend time to develop friendships. Work is important but not at the expense of losing friends.
  8. ·         Family is utmost important although at times, they are like a chore and burden.
  9. ·         Live with divine purpose and live intentionally.
  10. ·         Relationship Conflicts are unavoidable, no matter how well you meant, someone will take offence of your works, so just be reflective on your actions, learn from mistakes and move on. Forgiveness is mandatory but reconciliation needs both sides working on it.
  11. ·         Plan family trips – get everyone involved and involved the aging parents as much as possible.
  12. ·         Health is wealth but when necessary, spend time on health rather than on fashion or other perishable stuff.
  13. ·         Social Media is a great platform to share our lives, our faith, our beliefs, our principles but it is not our everything.